Understanding some one Vs Judging someone from other people words

Recently I have come across or should I say I got set up to be potrayed as the culprit, harasser, bothring girls, who’s going after every other girl for the dating and matrimonial purposes. This is very sad that people who know me also end up buying that context really hurts me. Come one now, I have talked to them for so long now, did I ever said one single non appropriate word or mis-behaved with them? I do not remember any occasion that I have ever done anything like that. I do not care what other people think about me but what we call “a friend” should or would know what the truth is. What is my fault? Is this my fault that I always try to make others happy, do not try to mis-behave or harm or curse any one. I thought my so called friends should have understood me by now. Yes I had to use so call friends because if that wasn’t the case, they should have stood by me. I am not trying to say I am always right but third person has no right to portray me as a culprit when I had done nothing wrong. Helping some one is bad and even thinks of helping some one is worse because you end up putting your self in the situation where you only make your self a bad person in front of every one. You get humiliated again and again and yet no one cares about it. Recent incidents only took me far away from trusting any one or now I am even afraid to make friends now.

I think we should or if we do are friends with some one we should understand him/her and stand by them instead of falling on some one else words which are mere made up and accusing some one for he has not done it. Time to time I have realized that God is your only true friend but yet we fall for worldly friends and do not learn from our mistakes. If we take the concept to the spiritual level, then do we understand God? No we do not. We just judge Him from other people words, like a preacher comes to Gurudwara Sahib, he does some katha and we all say “wah wah” you have done a great job. We fall on the words which we listen through other people instead of understanding the teachings ourselves through our own effort. May Waheguru bless all of us to understand “Him” and his qualities so we can shape our life in a better way.

May Waheguru give every one Chardeekala.

“A smile a day”

Oh my dear, Oh my dear,
Should I tell you that how much I care?
I see you here and I see you there,
Should I tell you that I see you everywhere?
My breath goes fast as I think of you,
My heart goes blast whenever I see you,
Sometimes I think I must talk to you,
Sometimes I think I must look at you,
But I must say this fear stops me,
Fear of you not appreciating my love.
Is it a love or it’s a lust?
Is it a fear or its gust?
But I must say whatever it is,
I would not hesitate by saying you this,
Whatever you think, whatever you say,
Please at least look at me once a day.
That’s all I ask from you,
That’s all I want from you,
One look and one smile a day,
Make my life creative every way.

~Jas~

“Passion of Heart”

Closer you come to me,
Faster my heart beats for you,
Farthest you go from me,
More my heart cries for you.
Your soft touch is still an ambiguity,
That will remain an unforgettable jiffy.
Thou I don’t know nothing about you,
Thou I had never talked to you,
Oh Lord, as days to come,
I must promise you,
I must know so much more about you.
I must say, you’ve always looked decent,
Every time when I think about you,
You’d always look so fine.
How I feel about you,
How much I Care about you,
This is what bothers me day and night,
How would you responses to desire?
A desire to make you,
Forever my bride!

~Jas~

Praise the Love

O God, please perfect me in love,
To defeat all my hatred for others
Fill my heart with peace and understanding
Please save me from all this disrupting.
Grant me the fruit of the spirit,
So I can praise the glory of love.
I shall overcome with my hasty temper.
Put the fruits of love in my little Hamper.
I shall take the hamper to spread the love.
Through the blessings this love will glow.

By: ~ Jaswinder

Lets love "The God"

Love is what only can take us to the lord.
O my borthers O my sisters, lets just all love "The God"

Learn to treat your ego as a friend, not a foe.
Learn to win your trust by hope, not strength

Spread the love being altruistic, not an egotistic
Control your anger with a smile, not tears.

Stand against the evil contentedly, not fear
This thought was in my mind, I wanted to share

Love is what only can take us to the lord.
O my borthers O my sisters, lets just all love "The God"

He's the one, whom we have to be one with
All this world is nothing, just he's the shinning Sun.

Lets take a step and try our all the best
Let's walk on his path and leave all the rest

Love is what only can take us to the lord.
O my borthers O my sisters, lets just all love "The God"

~ Jaswinder~

Miracle

Controlling Anger?

Often it happens that no matte how much we try to control our anger we do get angry at someone. That’s the fact not mere opinion. How does it happen? How can we control it? Well to answer these questions we have to look inside ourselves we are the one who would eventually have to work on these things. Often we suspect or blame God for everything. In fact we sometimes complain him for whatever happens. It is us who would have to work out our relations with others. God has given us senses but left us to make a decision about right and wrong. He helps us to grow but it is our fault if we grow in the wrong direction and make our self a different person that we really are. Even if we look inside our houses, a father son relationship, a mother son/daughter, a brother/sister, devar/bhabi relation ship, what ever you mention it, it is our responsibility to have a smooth relationship. But we cannot clap with one hand. If the other person doesn’t want to have that kind of relationship then where do we stand? If all she does is change your words and always stay ready to argue with you then what is your fault? Then again we can save ourselves from those un-wanted arguments and the way to do that is just ignore and don’t respond back, and keep doing your work. Isn’t it so simple now? Sometimes because of this ongoing arguments or behavior, it affects on long term relations and it gets out of hand to sort things out.

I hope Waheguru give all of us a good “matt” so we can save our self from the anger, arguments and hatred for others and able to have a better relationship with our love ones and people around us.

May god bless everyone!